Have you ever wondered just how successful people are
successful? You will have noticed that there are some people who just live
their life as if they appear as though they are 'in the flow all the time. And yet, you will also have
noticed there are other people for whom nothing goes right in their lives. They
never stop telling you about it either! A good question to ask would be, “what’s
the difference between them?” All of us
at one time or another, have experienced the disappointments that life can
bring. If you haven't, then your either deluded or dead. It’s common to all of us having a human experience. Even any ghosts reading this will agree when they remember. What is not common, is how
some people are able to create the life they want despite the setbacks, disappointments, disasters they have experienced whilst
others, just seem to stay in the same stuck place. And worse, create more of the same. Why?
One of the reasons people seek out an NLP Life Coach, is because
they aren’t getting the results they want in their life. Whilst they know they
aren’t and are dissatisfied, they also don’t
quite know how to produce the results they want. When things go wrong, how
often have you heard people blame something else besides themselves? Often. Blaming others, or events, or causes outside
oneself is very dis empowering. And I promise you, there is nothing to learn when you do that!
Now for some of you reading this, you may wonder how
circumstances that you have experienced can be anything else than someone/
thing fault, especially if you have suffered at some one else's hand. One thing to make clear is, that there is no ‘fault’ in this
discussion. Nor is there any implication of ‘deserving it’ when things go badly
in your life. Rather, it’s about you
taking back your power and living your life 'At Cause'. To blame or attribute cause outside yourself
for the experiences you have had in your life, which may have caused you pain,
is to say that you are powerless over the events in your life. You can hold onto that position if you want to, and some people will do that! They will argue for their position right into the grave. Or, you can consider there might be another more empowering way of being.
So,now that you are considering that, what does it mean to live your life ‘ at cause’? It means, that you begin to accept that for everything that happens to you, you have a choice and you have created. When you begin to realize this, it in fact, is very empowering. It means, if you are at cause for your life, you can create anything in your life. The total of all your choices, both conscious and unconscious, lead you to this very moment. The blame game you play ends. You realize you are the creator of your life and at any moment you are at choice.
Living your life ‘at cause’ requires a mental shift. Seeking a Life Coach trained in NLP and experience being coached, will rapidly create change and empowerment for you. Living your life ‘at cause’ IS empowerment. And being empowered, you will get into the flow of life and create the life you love.
I would suggest you just go for it! Live your life 'at cause' and if you are wanting to really get onto the 'cause' side of your life, then consider taking an NLP Empowerment Breakthrough session. Who knows what you might get out of life if you do?