Why do some men think that they have to find a technique to seduce women for sex? Seems to me that something is going on in their mind that thinks they have a perception if they can learn some magical technique it gives them a hidden power over women to get them into bed to "score".

Think about this for a moment. To use power - of any kind- over another is abusive. Do you think, that if a man feels then, to find a technique that is out of her awareness to get his own way for sex is very similar to the drive to rape only much more subtle?

It worries me a great deal that there is a mentality out there like this to think that NLP has some kind of power "over" someone else.

When I teach NLP, I teach from a strong ethical point and the students sign a Code of Ethics they agree to adhere to. I can't police this like a governing body can, but this is an attempt to educate my graduates to behave in such a way that respects and honours the individual. Another strong framework that I teach from, is that NLP is a do with process not a do to process. It's a paradigm of collaboration not a power over someone else.

So I would put it out there that this thinking of power over women for seduction is "stinking thinking" and men who write books to sell to vunerable and gullible men with low self esteem and just plain rip off artists who infact, are using the same technique of power over the male buyer of this rubbish.

Wake up guys! you really want a woman to have sex with you and then wake up and say.. ewww, who are you? or would you prefer a woman to have sex with you because you give her someone of yourself she wants?

Hmm... Im sure there are those guys out there who will say 5 seconds of shallow pleasure isnt the point. Its the "conquering" of the woman in conquest. But what have you conquered actually?

To me, thinking you can use NLP for seduction is like finding the magic pill for weight loss - it doesnt exist!

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